When we primp to allure mates, are we focused on the target audience, or serving the inner fashionista? Honor what appeals to you but be mindful of what attracts the viewer.
Estrogen Alert: Your partner may not find your “fascinator” so fascinating. Instead of embracing you, he may reach for the hedge clippers. Are you trying to attract nesting birds or stoke the embers of love?
Testosterone Alert: “Busting a sag” may be too much information for the market. Are you flaunting your gluteus maximus or trying to seduce a laundress?
The beautiful chandelier earrings you admire when you look in the mirror may be mistaken for fly fishing lures. Guys, you may strike out sporting your favorite team baseball cap at dinner on date night. It’s all o.k. Your choice. Just stay in command of the message.
Julie and Jennie