Take the shoe test and see how your footwear relates to your love life.
A closet dominated by sexy, curb-to-cab, uncomfortable shoes, may send you walking down a dangerous path. Those extreme stilettos may remove you from solid footing, much like the date who’s loads of fun, yet does not share your life values. Don’t get knocked off your feet by too many guilty pleasures. When fashion hurts,prickly love may follow.
Perhaps your pragmatic bent starts below the ankles with a collection of ho-hum shoes. If you are in the romantic dulldrums, engage in retail therapy. Add a pair of comfortable flats with embellishments to your otherwise lackluster wardrobe and love life.
Let your shoes lead the way in love and relationships. When initial attraction consistently overrides inner wisdom, practice behavior modification. Train yourself to pass on footwear and consorts that you know in your heart have limitations.
No pair of peds, or person, can be the perfect fit for every walking or waking moment.
“I love how you look…but not how you feel,” is a problem.
“I love you often…just not always,” is realistic from head to toe.