We don’t all start out with body beautiful. If your courtship launched with great abs but complacency allowed you to go too soft, the love may still be there but perhaps not the heat. Bait and switch doesn’t work in advertising and it doesn’t work in romance. Somewhere in between having a six pack and wearing one, is a reasonable expectation for keeping the flame in your relationship lit.
This is not just about looks. What needs tweaking: body, mind or spirit? All of the above? Ask yourself what you bought and what you sold on that first date.